Practically Married

Help your clients get the relationship they want!

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Couples seek you out for many reasons. If engaged or moving in together, they're probably excited about the future but concerned about issues that may stand in the way of the life they've envisioned. Couples who are married or in a committed partnership may already be struggling with issues and looking for ways to move forward. As a therapist working with couples in a variety of stages, you're able to highlight the reasons partners have chosen each other while addressing the differences that cause tension in the relationship.

Practically Married was created to support your work by providing a framework for couples to have important conversations, negotiate compromises, and set goals together. The program provides a structured yet flexible process for revealing a couple's strengths, challenges, and possible future stumbling blocks. Using this information you'll be able to focus appointment time on helping partners better understand each other and on developing effective strategies for managing their differences.

 



Guide couples through exploring essential relationship topics!

Practically Married consists of 10 modules addressing the central subjects couples face including money, sex, in-laws and careers. Each module has a set of worksheets for couples to complete together. Some modules such as Communication & Conflict, Money and Children require each partner to complete a self-assessment before working through questions as a couple.

The worksheets contain an extensive set of questions. Some will highlight relationship strengths while others may challenge partners to reveal uncomfortable truths. The prompts are designed to lead to greater disclosure and understanding, with the goal of a shared vision for the couple's life together.

 

"As a couples therapist who works with pre-marital and long-term couples, Practically Married is a game-changer. It’s a done-for-you system that professionally outlines key topics that need to be addressed. I love the ability to use the system as-is or pick-and-choose certain modules for easy customization.

Practically Married introduces the topics and allows me to choose where to go deeper. It is perfect for pre-marital couples but also effective for couples with a lot of history who haven't had foundational conversations. Couples find it very clear and approachable. Whether you're new to couples work or a more seasoned professional looking to save time and have more tools in your toolbox, the investment of Practically Married is returned in one session and the value is infinite."

Shemiah Derrick, LCPC

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"Practically Married has been an invaluable tool for the couples in my practice. Whether it’s a desire to learn more about themselves and their partner, dismantling fears about marriage or improving communication, Practically Married provides a framework for couples to approach these hard-to-navigate yet essential conversations in an attainable way.

In addition to witnessing pre-marital benefits, I’ve seen positive results using the Sex module with married couples looking to expand their sexual dialogue. The thoughtful questions allowed a vulnerable topic to be addressed openly in a way that felt productive to the couple.”

Gianna Saviano, LMFT, Pinnacle Counseling

 



Expand your practice with a method that is structured yet flexible!

Some couples seek counseling before getting engaged, while others may wait until six months before their wedding. With Practically Married, you can address a couple's needs based on their timeframe, the frequency of your appointments together, and the pace they are able to move through important conversations. The design of the program lets you determine which modules to cover in sessions, what topics the couple can discuss on their own, and in what order you want to address the various subjects.

If you don't currently provide premarital counseling, Practically Married paves the way for you to grow your practice by adding this service to your offerings. Additionally, since the language on our worksheets is inclusive (no gendered pronouns, use of "partner" instead of "fiancé," etc.), the program can be used with LGBTQ+ and straight couples who are pre-cohabitating, premarital, and newly married.

 

With a subscription plan, you can provide

Practically Married to multiple couples

for one low monthly fee!

A subscription plan gives you the flexibility to use the entire program or selected modules with multiple couples per month for one fee. You can even give couples a second set of worksheets later in therapy should their life circumstances change.

Your Practically Married subscription plan includes the following benefits:

  • Unlimited access to complete premarital/pre-cohabitation program
  • Unlimited access to individual modules for married/committed couples
  • Monthly email with curated resources including books, podcasts, articles and social media accounts
  • Access to special pricing for groups/practices of 10+ therapists

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"The worksheets in this program are thorough and thoughtful, full of reflective questions, and covering all the topics that often get overlooked (or intentionally ignored!) before marriage. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with couples, I would highly recommend Practically Married!"

Jocelyn Elderkin, MA, LMFT, Soleil Counseling

 

Program Creator


Paula L. Holt
Paula L. Holt

I'm excited to offer therapists this simple yet effective program to help couples improve their relationships!


While developing Practically Married, I consulted therapists and tested the program's modules with numerous couples to get a keen understanding of the needs of clinicians and their clients. To deepen my knowledge, I trained to facilitate The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Bringing Baby Home, Prepare/Enrich®, Couple Communication,™ and joined the AAMFT to gain access to its wealth of information. I've also studied a variety of highly regarded resources on relationships and the specific subjects in the program including money, sex, in-laws and the transition to parenthood.


Prior to my work in this field, I earned an MBA from the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University and graduated from Stanford University.


 

Frequently Asked Questions


How long does it take to get through Practically Married?
Since you customize how you use Practically Married depending on each couple, the length of time will vary depending on factors such as frequency of appointments, ability for the couple to work independently, and which parts of the program you decide to cover during sessions.
I share office space with two other therapists, can we share one subscription?
Each therapist who uses Practically Married is required to have their own subscription. If you are in a practice or group of 10+ therapists, please contact us at [email protected] to inquire about promotional discounts.
If I decide the program isn't right for my clients, what is your cancellation policy?
Although we'd be sorry to see you go, we understand that Practically Married might not be the right fit for your practice. You may cancel a monthly subscription with 30 days notice. You may cancel an annual subscription and receive a prorated refund minus a 10% administrative fee. Please keep in mind, once your subscription has been cancelled, you are prohibited from using any Practically Married materials including any blank worksheets you have already downloaded or printed.
I work with a diverse group of clients, is Practically Married affiliated with a particular religion?
Practically Married is not affiliated with any religious tradition and there are no references to religion in nine of the ten modules. For couples who would like to discuss religion with you or on their own, the Spirituality & Culture module has questions to invite conversations around if/how religious practices will be incorporated in their future together.
I would like additional information, how should I contact you?
Please email [email protected] and we will be happy to answer your questions.

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